“I can’t believe this! What more am I supposed to do to convince her of
my love? She says I am honest, kind, loving, and all that garbage, yet she is
not sure I am the one for her. What more does she want?” My good friend
Benjamin asked. His frustration and desperation were palpable. I wanted to be
of help to my dear friend, but I had to be truthful to him too. Carefully, I
sought for a means to help him take a look at things through a different pair
of binoculars. “You asked what more you need to do to convince her of your
love?” I asked him carefully. “Yes Victor, What more?” He replied with rage. “It is not a matter of whether you love
her or not, Ben,” I replied. “She already knows that. It is more about whether
she loves you or not.” Stunned, he gaped at me as though I had just fallen off
the sky. Obviously he had not thought of that.