How to be irresistibly attractive beyond looks

Being really attractive go beyond physical beauty. It includes the way you carry yourself, the way you relate to people and react to situations. It involves being confident, assertive and compassionate, being independent but wanting. This means that you can be very attractive on a gut level to your partner or the opposite sex in general even if you don’t think you are a model that just stepped out of a fashion magazine. Did you know that the most attractive part of a person is the brain? When you master your feelings, improve the mind and feed the right emotion, you can attract and hold the attention of anyone.

Here are a few things that will make you irresistibly attractive:

Embrace a healthy lifestyle.

 If you are not into exercise, get up and get some form of exercise daily. It can be as simple as taking regular long walks, jugging, racing, biking, or regular workouts such lifting some form of weight. Exercise does wonders for your mood and physique. Eat healthy foods that support your body, rich in vitamins and essential minerals. Do this because you respect yourself, not to impress others. The last thing you would want is to have health problems because you lead a sedentary lifestyle. While you are young, the body can still work hard to combat unhealthy lifestyle but when you get older the effects will be apparent as the body weakens. You are much more attractive when you are healthy.

Be fun to be with.

Don’t be uptight and sober all the time. Have some form of lightness about you. Don’t Take life too seriously and choose to find and create fun and joy. Be able to laugh at yourself then you can totally be comfortable Smile and laugh easily. What has always made people attractive to me is a great smile and kind eyes. Ones you are getting to know someone be open gestures of love. If you can make people comfortable and happy around you, sure you are on your way to being irresistibly attractive. They’ll miss you when you are absent and treasure your presence. Ever heard of some one that walks in and lights up a room? There is a sort of openness and a welcoming feeling they give off that makes people comfortable.

Be assertive.

But don’t be demanding. Make requests, not complaints. If you need something from someone, ask for it directly. Don’t whine or complain. Never play the victim. Don’t try to manipulate or hurt someone by trying to make them feel bad about their choices, decisions, or actions. No one likes to be nagged into doing something. Don’t be needy or desperate and don’t try to remind them of what you have done for them in the past. They will find a way to ignore your request. Better still appeal to their self- interest; what is in for them.

Handle situations squarely.

Don’t shy away from your responsibilities. Don’t procrastinate. Get up and act. You gain confidence by acting even if you fail, it is better than doing nothing. When faced with a problem handle it instead of retreating and whining about the situation to everyone. Accept your mistakes and work on them. Don’t accept items or situations just because you don’t want to offend others or because you are too scared to act. You don’t have to be a ‘jerk’ but calmly express your choices and preferences. Even when you don’t feel confident, fake it. No one can tell the difference. Show that you have what it takes to handle the world.

Avoid pointless arguments.

Don’t engage in pointless arguments. Don’t try to prove your point by arguing endlessly or by attacking a person’s character. The ill will you stir can last longer than the victory you had through argument. Don’t try to impress others with many words. The more you try the less in control you are. Smile and walk away until healthy communication is possible.

Improve your art of communication

Talk less and listen more. Don’t worry about what to say if you really listen, what to say will come naturally. Genuinely care about others. Love life and life will love you back. Stay away from gossip and back stabbing. You lose trust and friendship faster that way. Work on your body language.  Much is said through body language than actual words.  When speaking, make eye contact, smile. Hold your body erect but not stiff. When walking, look straight ahead, Hips loose and tilted a bit forward, chest present, and chin up.

Note: These techniques are very powerful and can bring you a lot of attention than you can handle, but won’t work for you unless you practice them daily until they become part of you.

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